calling you mr. president and hanging on every word you say and telling you what you want to hear and all of the weird bubble stuff that goes on when you become president if there is one person that can tell you you need to pull your socks up and eat your broccoli that person becomes enormously important keeping you grounded and not having the job make you crazy because it is a job that will make you crazy. >> michael duffy, astonishing women. we spend all the time talking about the men but the women when you line them up each one is amazing and accomplished and all into something different and when you really think about the quality of women, one of my favorite stories is when michael told me how best truman made harry work harder. how difficult, unloving she was. >> we should say michael and i went out to the truman house and library about ten years ago. >> yeah. >> and what's the story here? >> well, the story i can tell it, is that about six months