you're seen as this confident woman, this established woman, this smart woman. so i don't understand how it squares with what you describe as yourfearful mind. you say you've lived with it for 58 years, and you say which, and i quote, "hates how i look all the time and no matter what". i'll be honest with you, if you're feeling like this, what hope do the rest of us have? well, i think that's the point of sharing it. we all have those thoughts, those negative thoughts that we've lived with for years, especially as women. and as women of colour, where we don't see ourselves reflected in our society. i think we're in a better position. but one of the things i talked about was what it was like growing up notjust as a black woman, but as a tall black woman. before the serena and venus years, before we had the wnba, that we had role models other