Ridiculist. That was a good one. Tune in next week to see the top five. That does it for now. Time for piers morgan tonight. Piers morgans interview with tyler perry begins in just a minute. Im Candy Crowley in washington with the latest on the fiscal cliff negotiations. There was a big meeting at the white house today between the president and the four leaders, two republicans and two democrats on capitol hill. Senator harry reid told reporters afterwards that the next 24 hours would be very important, as he and republican leader Mitch Mcconnell try to put together something that would pass both of their caucuses, that republicans in the senate would vote for and that democrats in the senate would vote for. And then, of course, it would have to go to the house. Now, the majority leader senator reid said hes readying a bill for a vote on monday to prevent a tax hike on incomes up to 250,000. Senator reid said his bill will include all of the additional provisions that the president outlined that include longterm unemployment benefits, a continuation of those. That would be sort of the plan b for democrats simply because what they would rather do is get a bill with senator reid working in conjunction with senator mcconnell. Senator reid said hes awaiting good faith proposals from the republicans. President obama said after the meeting that he is modestly optimistic a deal can be reached, but as you can hear from senator reid, the president asked that if a deal between republicans and democrats cannot be reached, then the president wants just an up or down vote on what he wants, which is quite simply no income tax rates going up for people making 250,000 and under. And an extension of longterm unemployment benefits. And thats of course for the longterm unemployed as well as whats known as a dock fix which has to do with medicare payments to doctors. Thats where we are. We dont expect anything big in the next 24 hours, but this is after all washington. Right now, its time for piers morgan tonight. Tonight, tyler perry is a successful writer, director, actor. She told me youre the best interviewer in the world, so im worried. His movies have grossed over 600 million. It means i get to reinvest in what i do and im able to hire a lot more people. And he knows how to wear a dress. Have you ever thought you were going to be world famous for cross dressing. Never in a million years. Even the first time i did it, i didnt think it would last as long as it did. The greatest gift in my life is what my audience has given me. And heshes a fine girl. Brandy back to the spotlight and speaking from the heart about her mentor, whitney houston. I felt like i wasnt there for her enough at the end of her life. This is piers morgan tonight. Now to the man of the hour, tyler perry. Welcome, tyler. Thank you, thank you. Are you nervous . A little bit. A little bit. Had a word with my friend. She told me you were the best interviewer in the world so im very, very worried. High praise from the queen herself. You werent called tyler perry as a boy, you were born emmett perry jr. You changed your name, you said, to distance yourself from your father, who lets be honest, sounds brutal. He used to beat you relentlessly as a young man. It must have had an effect on you . Of course, but i was able to forgive him in my mid20s, and that changed my life. What i did was, what a lot of people dont realize or understand is their parents have a story, too. Whatever happened in your life because of them you really need to find out the story so you can understand it. What i found is he and his sister and brother, they were all found by a white man in rural louisiana in a ditch, he was 2 years old at the time, brought to a 14yearold woman named may to raise. Her father was bedridden, very old man. Was a slave. And everything that she knew to do to get these children to behave was to beat them. She would tie them in a potato sack, hang them in a tree, and beat them. So thats what he knew. Thats what he came from. He had been abused. Abused his entire life. Third grade education. How did you find this out . I found it out by asking questions. Finally, of him. He told you . He told me a lot about it. My aunt told me about and it other people in the town, small town in louisiana where he grew up, told me about the story. So it helped me to understand a lot of who he is, which made it easier for me to let go and forgive him. Hard to forgive, though. It is, it is, but its very necessary. What i found is this, and this is so true. If you do not forgive, you hold on to this thing inside of you that can change your life and take you in the wrong direction. 9 times out of 10, the people who have done things to you are asleep and at peace and youre holding on to it, it can literally become sickness in your body and make your physically ill. I think that forgiveness is beyond important. Is he still alive, your father . He is. What kind of relationship do you have with him . We dont speak very much, but i am taking care of him. I make sure he has everything he needs. You support him . Absolutely. 100 . As a child, he wasnt a great father, but he was a great provider and he had an incredible work ethic. He gave me my work ethic. Do you think despite the way he man handled you, did you feel he loved you . Never felt that. I felt strongly there was something there, and i didnt know what it was. When i was about 30, my mother told me he never thought i was his child. That wads another thing that i didnt know that caused issues as well. Did you have that out with him . I did. About four years ago i asked why. All he could tell me through his tears, this is what he said, you dont know what happened to me, which clearly made me stop and say, you know what, i dont, but that doesnt justify what you did, but i will take that and try and consider it and understand it and make it work for the better of both of us and this relationship as father and son. Is he proud of you for what you have achooved . I think so because in any situation hes in tears, everything that happens, he cries. Every guilt, you think . Thats exactly what i thought. Early on, every award, every situation, every time you see an ad for one of my films or come to a tears. I always thought it was tremendous guilt. Has h ever said sorry . No, he hasnt. He hasnt. Would you like him to . At this point, i dont know if it matters. I really dont know if it matters because i really have, i really am done with it. I dont know if it matters if he said he was sorry. By contrast, you have this amazing relationship with your mother, a fabulous woman, and sadly died a few years ago, but tell me about her. She was, again, born in the same little small town. Her mother died when she was 13. She met my father when she was 17. He would visit her every week and show up in these new cadillacs and buicks and she thought he was rich, and he was going to take her to live on his cattle ranch in texas. They get married, they end up in a juke joint for 12 hours looking for a place to live. She had no idea. She left my grandfather, moved in with him, and her sole support was my father. Thats all she knew. She would go to my aunts and say were having trouble. Hes hitting me. What should i do . They said, stay with that man. Hes good, hes got a job. That was a different time back then. She was a great woman, wonderful story. She worked in a Jewish Community center for many years taking care of little kids there. And was just a beautiful, beautiful soul, who only knew how to love. There were so many people, and i remember as a boy, waking up and there being people in the house all the time who needed a place to stay, who needed food, who needed anything. She was just a wonderful, wonderful woman. What did she make of what happened to you . She must have been stunned, or did she quietly think all the time, tyler is going to make Something Big of himself . You mean of all the success . Yeah. It was remarkable to her because she would always say to me, she always wanted to live like ms. Chancellor on the young and the restless, and she never thought she would. The greatest gift in my life is what my audience has given me. That is the opportunity to take care of her and have her live the best life that she could. I read a story that she pass ed something, a car on the road, a red jaguar, and she said i would love to have one. Did you get a chance i did. I was a little boy at the time. She was driving, and she said, m man, i really like that car. I said, when i get big, im going to buy you that car. I was in new orleans onstage beforekatrina, and i called her up on stage close to mothers day and gave her the keys to the car. So many tears in the audience and so many tears from her. A great moment. What did she say to you . She was speechless, the thank you and love. Here is a woman who never asked me for a dime. But as a little boy, watching all she had gone through, i wanted to do everything i could to take care of her, to make sure she had the best life she could. And because of my audience, nod bless them, i was able to do them. Lets talk about money, fame, love, and oprah. Okay. Maybe theyre all linked in some way. How you doing . You come before me more than you go to the for for a checkup. I done changed my life. Im living for the lord. I am living for the lord. I am living for the lord. Hallelujah, i feel him down in my spirit. You know, as i think about the goodness and all that he has done for me, my soul cries out hallelujah, thank god for saving me. You finished . [ female announcer ] almost nothing can dampen a babys mood, when he wakes up dry in pampers. Unlike other diapers, pampers has 3 absorbent layers, for up to 12 hours of protection overnight, and more beautiful mornings. Pampers. Peaceful nights. Playful days. Time for citi price rewind. Because your daughter really wants that pink castle thing. And you really dont want to pay more than you have to. Only citi price rewind automatically searches for the lowest price. And if it finds one, you get refunded the difference. Just use your citi card and register your purchase online. Have a super sparkly day ok. 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Tyler perry grimacing there. A mixture of joy and horror at the character he created and made a huge franchise, amazing franchise. Joy and horror. Thats just about right there. Yeah, yeah. Did you ever think when you were young that one day you would be world famous for cross dressing . Never. Never in a million years, even the first time i did it i never thought it would last as long as it did. I thought, i saw eddie murphy do it, the brilliant eddie murphy, and i thought ill try my hand as a female character, i did it and the audience wont let it go. I read a great line that i thought was probably true. I think tyler grew up being raised by strong black women. So much of what he does is a celebration of that. Thats what madea is, a compilation of these women. Thats why it works, because people see themselves. Sure, as i traveled the country, i have found that madea isnt just a black woman. There are lots of other madeas. I met a jewish madea, an italian madea. A strong woman. The strength of women. My mother was one, my aunt was one, this woman carried a razor all the time. You wouldnt want to run into them in a dark alley. Last year, forbes listed you as the highest paid male entertainer, earning 130 million. Wow. Uh. Any comment . No, next question. Uncomfortable talking about money . It drives me insane. Its great. Im grateful for it. I really, ruly truly am. But i dont necessarily want it printed. You know, i dont think people want their income printed. If i earned that kind offend money, i would want it printed. What is the point of working that hard . No, its certainly not about showing off. You know what that means to me is honestly this, to make that type of money means that i get to reinvest it in what i do because i invest in myself, and im able to hire a lot more people down there at the studio and do more films. Your own studio, tyler perry studio. Thats pretty cool. Where even dreams believe. I love that. I read the story of david in the bible. There was a moment in his life where he was a dreamer but he was in prison, and the dream kept reminding him to keep going. So he stopped believing but the dream itself kept believing. Thats where the mantra came from. Sometimes things get so rough and so bad in your life that your dream has to dream for you. And remind you to keep going. What is the best thing about money, though, for you . Again, the best thing, which changed my entire life, was being able to support my mother. Thats where all of the drive came from. Youre ridiculously generous. You cant watch the Television Without getting the checkbook out. Thats why i cant watch the news. I am always trying to find a way to reach out. Its a nice side to you, thou. Okay, thank you. Why do you feel awkward talking about it . I just feel that to whom much is given much is required. And everybody doesnt have to know all of the other sides of it. Whatever you do for people and the kindness that you show, its not necessarily for everybody to know. Unlike most celebrities i have interviewed in your position who have been so successful, there doesnt seem to be any terrible drug, alcohol related period, where you had to go in the betty ford clinic for a year. How have you avoided the pitfalls that go with superstar fame, big money, and the rest of it . My faith. Its completely 100 been my faith in god and believing and praying all the time because this entire life, when i look at all these people and what they go through and how they go through it, and whitney, who was a friend of mine, and Michael Jackson, and the struggle, i feel i understand what brings you to a point of i need some relief. I completely understand it because the pressure of the situation can be really difficult and demanding. And it affects it doesnt affect you as much as it affects everybody around you, which in turn will affect you. So i understand that. See, thats a very good point. Thats a point that people dont say often enough. How can superstars have pressure . I mean, theyre not coal miners. But its a very particular pressure. Because their fame causes all sorts of ripple effects. With everything. They cant trust anybody. Their family members betray them. Its a different pressure. It can get overwhelming for people. Absolutely. I am telling you, if i didnt have my faith in god, i dont know where i would be. And you add to that your income has been presented for millions of people to read. It changes everything. Youre still the same person going, whats the matter . What is happening . I quite like it when i read that. Exactly. I got a lot of that. Oprah has been a great role model. You just joined her network to work with her. Which is great for her and great for you, i think. Tell me about oprah. I love oprah. She did my first show. She couldnt have been more gracious to me. Great interview. Theres not much i can say about her that isnt known. What you see is what you get. She is who she is. And where think that why the Oprah Winfrey show and her legacy and everything shes done has been so profound because its all authentic and real to the millionth of an inch. Its all very, very real. It comes from her soul and heart and what she does and wants to do is inspire, uplift, and encourage, which is in my wheelhouse as well. What advice has she given you now that youre joining her network, working for her, basically, shes your boss. Yeah, i think the best advice that shes given me is come here and do what you do. Do what you do and be comfortable doing what you do. And im very honored to even have an opportunity to work with her because the woman has inspired me my entire life. To be able to join forces and go in and because im moving toward having my own network, and we get an opportunity to help each other. I have programming that can produce content, and she needs programming content, and she has the experience of starting her own network. Its a great tradeoff. When we come back, im going to talk to you about love, romance, marriage, children, and morgan freeman. Okay, cool. In that order . In that order. In that order. Constipated . Yeah. Mm. Some laxatives like dulcolax can cause cramps. But phillips caplets dont. They have magnesium. For effective relief of occasional constipation. Thanks. [ Phillips Lady ] live the regular life. Phillips. But hed wait for her forever, for any reason, and would always be there with the biggest welcome home. For a love this strong, dawn only feeds him iams. Compared to other leading brands, it has 50 more animal protein. To help keep rockys body as strong as a love that never fades. If he ever lets her leave again. Iams. Keep love strong. But dont just listen to me. Listen to these happy progressive customers. 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He played god in a movie, so im like, but as i looked at James Pattersons description of the physicality and the age and family, i thought, hes talking about me. So i gave it a second look, and i loved the arc that i get to play in this role. I get to go from the family man to the brilliant psychologist figures things out to chasing out a bad guy to this lion unleashed at the end of the movie. Youre also superslim. And we have here mens health. You lost 30 pounds . I dropped 30 pounds. A gut busting cover. How tyler perry dropped 30 pounds and you can too. How did you do it . I worked with anthony gholston. And prayer and working out. Dont eat as much . You dont eat as much and move a lot more. I was running five miles. And im telling you, im dropping names, but this guy eric in atlanta worked with me and was amazing. I did it for five minutes and could not get off the floor. Its amazing to get you to really shed the pounds. Lets talk about love, tyler. No. Let me ask that again. Lets talk about love, tyler. Okay, lets talk about love. How many times have you been properly in love in your life . What does that mean . What does that mean . Thats what oprah said to me. The type that makes your heartache or break. Thats what it means. That kind of love. If i told you the truth, i would get in trouble. So why . Because there are ah so alex cross is an amazing movie. Tyler, tyler, im not letting you off the hook. Okay, okay. All right, all right. Once. Really . Once, yeah. Yeah. And what went wrong . I think we were both very young. We were mid30s, which was it was a very scary time in my life. I was just coming into success. I had spent 28 years of my life being very unhappy. And i was very afraid of it. I was very afraid of the feeling of not being able to know if she loved me the way i loved her. And the control, i think, scared me. Was it in the end your decision to walk away . Yes, it was. Do you regret that . No, i dont. You thought it was the right thing . Yeah, because we both were in a place where and i just realized i should not have said this because i should not have said this. Why . Why shouldnt you have said that . Uh, because i said too much. Now shell figure it out and, yeah. What will she figure out . Why dont you ask another question . Why dont you ask another question . Because youre being so nice about and it so honest. All right, so what do you want to talk about now . The obvious question after that, do you hope to have that again in your life . Youre so busy, so successful. Thats part of the reason im so busy. Theres a woman im seeing now that i love very, very much. Its a different kind of love, but i love her very, very much. Now im beginning to work out why you got yourself into a hole. Now youre seeing me trying to dig myself out of the hole. Get a shovel, start digging. So what im what im trying to do at this point is just enjoy it all. Im not ready to settle down. Im not ready to get married. Im not ready to be in a situation where i have a commitment. Im not ready for that. Especially after that situation. I see. You went through a very deep experience. You just want to be sure next time that its right. And whats the rush . Im a guy. 43. I have want little tylers running around . Yeah, but i have to find a way where im okay with that happening. What was she like . Theres no hurry. You have a line probably the length of manhattan of potential suitors, i would imagine. I appreciate that. Moving on . Move along . K yes, thank you so much. You want to have a glass of water . Knl i need a shot of vodka, my friend. Thats what i need now at this point. I want to ask you one thing. You cast Kim Kardashian about a film about marriage counseling then it gets worse you went from bad to worse. What were you thinking . Kim kardashian is to marriage counseling what Bernie Madoff is to financial management. Let me make this perfectly clear about Kim Kardashian and my choice of casting her in this film. I wreote a film that is coming out in march. Its called the marriage counselor and its a cautionary tale about making decisions in relationships. I had no idea she was married, going through what she was going throw, i had no idea she was getting divorced. Kwl did you know who she was . No. I know shes a sweet girl, she came in, did a great job. She was very professional. Im very happy with what she did and im also happy of this. Hear me cleary. There are millions of people who look up to the kardashians. Its very responsible to have someone like Kim Kardashian in a film that is a cautionary tale about making bad decisions and choices so that if people or children or fans of hers are watching and coming in and they see this story, if it speaks to them, then shes done a great job and i have done a great job in putting her in the movie. She has about 18 million followers on twitter. So you understand. I get it. She didnt claim to be fabulously talented. What she is it very hard working, very beautiful, and knows how to work her brand. Very much, very much. Whether shes the right person for marriage counseling, im not sure. Shes not the marriage counselor. I wouldnt advise you to take her on your arm and say, help me out. No, no, but she does a great job in the film. She does a great job. Shes in a smaller role. Her purpose and point in anything that i do is to uplift and inspire and encourage, as i have said before. And i think that when people see the movie, theyll get it. Theyll understand. Shes a smart cookie. Lets take another break, come back and talk about another smart cookie, a fabulously talented one, whitney houston. A tragic loss. I want to know your thoughts. You were a friend of hers. Tried to help her, and clearly, like many other people, werent successful. This is 100,000. We asked total strangers to watch it for us. Thank you so much. I appreciate it. Ill be right back. They didnt take a dime. How much in fees does your bank take to watch your money . If your bank takes more money than a stranger, you need an ally. Ally bank. Your money needs an ally. Restore revive rejuvenate rebuild rebuild rebuild tonight, my special guest, tyler perry. Its been a fascinating experience. Youre a very honest, open book. Even if you dont want to be. I dont want to be honest about everything. I dont want to share everything. I dont mind being honest. I dont want to share everything. We talked about whitney houston, a friend of yours. You have been quite candid about trying to help her. You rang her or felt compelled to ring her on the night Michael Jackson died. They were the same age, similar problems. You recognized she might be going through turmoil about that. Tell me about that. I havent talked about it publicly. Im surprised you know that. How do you know that . I know everything, tyler. I called her that night, i had been trying to get her all day, and i called her that night. And she had Donny Hathaway in the background, and we talked a while, and she was really broken up about his death, and i was trying desperately to get her to let me to come over to the house and sit with her and know shes okay, and whitney in true fashion, after me trying five, ten different times, she said listen, im a mother and a woman and im single and youre not coming over to my house in the middle of the night. And the way that only she could. But its beyond tragic. And i was so disgusted, i must tell you, i was so disgusted at the media and the way they handled her death. It was it was so blatantly disrespectful. The paparazzi. This is what i mean about fame, and even in death, trying to get her, just her body from the morgue to the plane. You supplied the plane, didnt you . I did. I did. And there was it was beyond awful. I tell you, we tried to sent a hearst as a decoy. They fount out we had the body in a van, and there were paparazzi 50 deep following the van. We move the plane into the hangar and close the door, bring the van in. And one person, one of the hired drivers is trying to take pictures of them putting her body on the plane. It was just beyond disrespectful for her family and everyone else. And i understand she was a superstar, but she didnt deserve to be treated that way in the media toward the end, you know . And they asked me to come down to the beverly hilton, and walking into that hotel room and seeing it was so bizarre. Im thinking, these people cannot know she has died. Theres a party going on. This cant be true. So surreal. I go upstairs to the floor. Her family is there. Theyre all iptears. And im in the room with them, and the coroner and the police are three doors down from where we are. And im looking at the water on the table as the family is breaking down. Its vibrating from the bass below. I think, what is this . What is this . That this womans life is not worth a moment of silence to so many people who shes meant so much. So it was beyond hurtful in many ways. Very sad indeed. Youre a fascinating guy. You went through hell, i look at you now, you seem a man of peace, but you may be a good actor. I know youre a good actor because your new movie is out, alex cross. Here is a clip. Youre taking this personally. About as personal as you took running out of the building with your tail tucked between your legs. Very good movie. I really enjoyed it. You could be the next james bond. You wont see me as james bond. The first black bond. Will smith should be the first black bond. Why should it be him . If you lose weight at the way youre going, youll be skinnier than him. This is it. Ill stick with alex cross. Final question, its one i ask a lot of people. If you could relive one moment in your life before you died, and i had that power to give you, what would you choose . Theres one moment and ill probably regret it for my entire life. My mother was on her death bed. And she told me, she said, i just want it all to be over. And i got so upset, i couldnt hear it. I wish i had listened to what she had to say because i felt that in that moment, there was so much she wanted to share with me. And had i been able to hold myself still and listen, i probably would have had a lot more of my lifes questions answered. Very poignant thing. Yeah. Tyler, its been a real pleasure. Please come back again sooner rather than 20 months or whatever it took me to get you. Its been a real pleasure. Best of luck with the movie. Alex cross great film. Good luck with all of your projects, particularly your work on o, with my friend oprah. Best of luck. Tyler perry. Coming up next, singing sensation brandy on her return to music and whitney houston, her friend and mentor who inspired her. Initiated. Neural speeds increasing to 4g lte. Brain upgrading to a quadcore processor. 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I have been great. Life has been amazing the last couple years. Im back with new music, acting again. Its a fresh new start and im loving it all. You had this sad thing. We were doing the show together, number one show on television that summer. Everyone was going crazy on americas got talent kwaelts and you were involved in this horrible car accident here in los angeles, and somebody died and you decided you couldnt continue on the show, which i was really upset about because we had huge chemistry, and that was a huge blow to you. Tell me about it. It was the most difficult experience i have ever been through. You dont wake up thinking that Something Like that would happen to you. Its like what you read about or hear about on the news but never would you think it would be your experience. And you know, it was one of the hardest times of my life, and i just the worst thing from my point of view, somebody who really liked you and got to know you, is that there was a terrible sort of blame game going on. Oh, yeah. In all of the headlines, that you had been on your blackberry, doing this. And it turns out all of that was complete nonsense. You werent found culpable of anything. It was one of those terrible accidents in life. It was very hurtful, what people were saying, what the media was saying. But you know, i felt spiritually, it was a test of my strength, and it revealed my strength to me. It took a while because i went through it was really tough, mentally, physically, spiritually, but i got through it. Were there times when you thought, im going to have to pack this in, this celebrity game . Because if you had just been a regular person involved in that accident, nothing would have happened as a result of it. Because you were so famous in this big show, and a huge singing star, it was just excellent fodder. I know. For years, and it really dragged you down, didnt it . It really did. And being a celebrity or being in the limelight, it comes with all of that, but you know, what i have to remember as i go forward in my life is that the gift that i was given by god, i have to share that with the people that truly love me and the people that truly can see me. Thats what its about. And all the rest is whatever. You write these sleeve notes in your album two eleven, but you pay tribute to your mom and dad. I imagine they were terrific to you through that. Thats when family is most important. Ray jay. My mom, especially, my brother and my dad. My mom, shes like my rock. Shes my backbone. She really holds me down with everything. What did she say to you . When times were really tough, when you were going through that hellish period, maybe doubting if you would ever come back from it, what did you mother say to you . She told me to remember who i am. Remember what i think about myself, and remember just what shes taught me. And not worry about what the other people think. And i stayed away from what everybody else thought. I could feel that things were happening and things were being said and things were going on, but i stuck my my mom, i stuck by my family. Whats incredible about you, youre 33 years old. You have been in the business 18 years. Yes. You dont even look 18. Good. You have weathered like a fine wine. Thank you. Thank you very much. You know, im just trying to keep it do you ever stop and think, wow, im only 33. I have had this 18year career . Television, music, everything. Its pretty unbelievable because i started at 15 years old. And everything just started happening at that age. And it continued. And you know, now im coming back with all of this new stuff. And it feels new again, but i definitely know that i have been around for a while. And its amazing. Im very grateful and thankful for it. You also have a baby girl. Shes 10 years old. 10 years old . Shes 10. Whats being a mother like . It keeps you on your toes, thats for sure. And everything is led by example. You have to teach by what you do. So, you know, i definitely have to stay on or shell be looking at me like, mom, you did it. Shes amazing. Shes definitely my star, for sure. Were going to take a break and come back and talk about the album, two eleven. Its a poignant title. Its your birthday and its also the day whitney, your great friend, died. I want to talk to you about that. [ male announcer ] rocky had no idea why dawn was gone for so long. But hed wait for her forever, for any reason, and would always be there with the biggest welcome home. For a love this strong, dawn only feeds him iams. 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Wow, id forgotten. Im going to listen to this on the way home tonight. Lets talk about 2 11. Its a very special title. It is your birthday but its also Whitney Houstons death. I was in los angeles on we came here on coanchored all night long with a really heavy heart. It was one of those desperately sad things to have happened in the business. I remember. You were 9 years old when you sneaked in to see your first ever concert, a whitney concert. Yes. You started with her in the 1997 movie cinderella, she played your fairy goodmother. Your brother, ray, was dating her. They were really close friends. I realize thats how you want to characterize it. So an incredible journey you went on with whitney houston. Tell me about it. Wow. From the very first time i saw her, i was completely blown away. Her music, her voice, just everything about her just touched my spirit in ways that no other singer could. You know, working with her on just sharing moments with her were just unforgettable. One. Last things that we talked about was me Going Forward on what i had to do in terms of my connection with my fans on music on she just told me, you know, you just have to be yourself because when youre yourself, thats who people will fall in love with. Was she herself towards the end do you think or had she just got lost in fame on abuse on all the rest of it . One of the things that i cant put my mind around is where she really was because, you know, at the end of her life i wasnt there. I wanted around. I didnt talk to her as much, which was one of the reasons it was so hard for me to get through her passing was because i felt like i wasnt there for her enough at the end of her life. Have i no clue where she was mentally or spiritually. I dont know. What many of her friends told me was that you couldnt underestimate how big a blow it was for her to lose the voice, the power that she had, the inability in stage shows to hit the big notes anymore for i will always love you on so on. As somebody who still can, do you understand what that feeling must be like . I understand what that feels like. I dont understand to that degree but i understand, you know, because i feel like when i i dont have my instrument, i dont really have me. It is what youre about. Yes. Its almost who you are. Of course theres more to you than your voice but thats what you use to share, thats what you use to give. Its your purpose. Its what you were born to do. On to lose that must be the worst thing. Yeah. It probably drove her insane. It probably drove her insane. Where were you when you heard the news . How did you hear it . I was actually in the same hotel that she passed in. Beverly hills . Yes. We were all getting ready for the clive grammy party. I was in my room getting ready. But the strange thing is right before i started to get ready, there was this guy on a paramedics guy in the elevator on they were like hurry up, hurry up, shes not breathing, shes not breathing on later on to find out they were talking about whitney, i was like, whoa, this is, this is crazy. On my mom calls me on tells me that she passed on i couldnt believe it. I was like, no way, you know. On i just i fell to the floor in tears on had been crying for weeks on months after that. Really . Yeah. It hit that you bad . It hit me. It just hit me in ways i cant even explain. How is ray doing . Because he was very close to her. Ray has been going through it. He really has been going through it. You know, but every time we go through something, we always stick to who we are as family on, you know, so weve been there for him. But hes been silent about everything, just taking his time with it. Very tough thing to deal with. Very tough thing to deal with. Shed have been very proud of you i think, especially the way youve rebuilt your life on your career now. I mean, things couldnt be going better for you. Are you excited about having a new album out now, with everything youve been through in the last ten years . I am. Im very excited because this new album is music that i truly believe in, i truly love the mousse that i can im singing on loved the producers on the write thats ive worked with on this album on im so happy to go forward on share it on talk about it on sing about it. Its a great, great time for me. What wh you sing, what do you have feel . I feel everything, i feel all the emotions thats inside of me, i feel especially when im singing in front of people, i feel their emotions, you know, when theyre giving me that love that i need to kind of give them back the love. So its just a