jennifer lost her husband nicholas. according to a friend, the 52-year-old born-again jew had a heated passionate conversation with politics and religion with his co-worker and gunman, syed rizwan farook just days before the shooting. >> i'm sure he would have talked to him and i'm sure they would have had discussions with religion because my husband would discuss religion with anybody that would listen. >> reporter: those close to robert adams tell cnn the 44-year-old always wanted to be a father. he married his high school sweetheart, summer, and finally got his wish last year when she gave birth to savannah. the couple had plans to take their 20-month-old to disneyland next week. benetta bet-badal, a mother of 3, moved to the u.s. from iran when she was 18 to escape religious persecution. her husband says everything she
interviews. i had met him at the mosque. he would come during his lunch break. he was working as a health inspector. so he would come during his lunch break to our local mosque and attend the noon prayer. i would talk to him for maybe five minutes or so. i wasn't somebody that was an intimate friend of his or in his inner circle so i wasn't somebody that knew any type of family problems that he had or any type of struggles that he was going through. he never shared anything like that with me. >> it sounds like he was observant, devout, but no more than any of you at the mosque. >> absolutely. >> did you ever meet his wife at the mosque or see her? >> no. because he was coming from work, there was no reason to bring his wife with him. he was coming from work. it's his lunch break. so, no, he never brought his wife to the mosque, to the san bernardino mosque that i ever
website. he came across malik, a pakistani citizen living in saudi arabia. he turned to this man for marital advice. >> he said, i feel comfortable with this person and i believe she's a good woman, she's a decent woman. she's a religious woman. >> reporter: kuko says that farook flew there to meet mall like in 2013 and went again in june 2014. documents show she entered the u.s. a month later. their marriage certificate filed in riverside county says they were legally married in august of that year. members of the mosque first met malik at their wedding ceremony held here. abdul akmed, farook's friend, was among the 300 who attended the wedding. >> when he comes here, he was looking good. >> reporter: and then he disappeared? >> he disappeared, yeah. >> reporter: after coming to this mosque every day for two years, farook stopped. >> how can this happen?
established that there are some sort of interesting contacts to extremists that were, erin, on their radar screen. you've got to remember that the sheer scale of this threat is very high and there's been a large number of people that they are having to monitor. it's really just a question of prioritizing all the time. >> jim, as farook and his wife were planning this attack, and we know it was planned and meticulously planned, they did not show any outward signs of radicalization, according to everyone we've spoken to so far. a friend on the show saw him every single day. he said at lunch at mosques he never noticed a change. his family said they never noticed anything. you just heard his sister. here's a little bit more of what she had to say. >> they were totally shocked. had no idea to the point where when they got word that an incident had taken place, they were worried about the health