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She has not been speaking to me much since our last conversation and I don’t know what to do. Please help.

No, you’re not being petty if you feel as if this is a sign of being underappreciated. Tell her why it bothers you instead of letting it fester because minor arguments about money can grow into serious issues if left unaddressed

As for the person he was in a relationship with, it may make sense for you to acknowledge her presence and accept that she used to be an important part of his life. Why assume she intends to cause a rift between you and your husband without getting to know her first

Consider taking time off, away from him and his messages, so you can think about this clearly on your own terms before arriving at any decision.

Does your boyfriend assume you aren’t capable of making sensible choices on your own? Are your friends aware of why he comes across as controlling? You can be honest with them all, or listen to them and decide what is best for you

I think this is going badly and I am prepared to end it. Do I tell her that it’s over?

If it continues, I don’t know if it is more sensible for me to walk away from this relationship. What should I tell her?

It is certainly a sign of disrespect and needs to be called out because it’s not okay. He can have an opinion about your friends because he’s entitled to one, but being dismissive or disrespectful for no apparent reason is not a nice thing

Maybe not meeting her will give her a chance to think of me more objectively and she may consider asking me out for a change

If you both enjoy each other’s company, that is all that matters. There are no rules on how much time you should spend together