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If neither of you want things to change, nothing will; it is as simple as that. If you have specific fears, talk about them. Either way, neither of you should have a problem with communication after all these years

If it doesn’t work out, you will all have to find a way of coping with that. For now, that is all presumptive and has no bearing on the present. Start by speaking with this girl, find out how she feels, before deciding what you want to do next

If she can’t have conversations with you, it will affect your ability to build trust and communicate better. This is about more than compatibility, and you should ask her why she wants to be with you if this is a problem

I don’t want to explain my actions to anyone, but I know that not telling him will make me feel awful. How do I do this?

Why not put aside the person you have a crush on for the moment, and focus solely on how you feel about your current relationship? If you are prepared to be without your boyfriend, you might as well end it

I’m not sure if I am misinterpreting this, but all the signs are in place. What do I do?

I suggest you have a chat with him, as calmly as possible, explaining why this is affecting the future of your relationship. If he loves and respects you, he will make an effort to change how he approaches this

You presumably fell in love with her because of her personality, not despite it. Trying to change someone is usually futile, but you can always try and be more specific about what you mean, so she understands your perspective a little better

On the one hand, you don’t want to be unreasonable and impose rules. On the other, that is what you are considering. Why not tell him what bothers you, avoid meeting people you don’t like, and leave it at that

How can I fix this when it isn’t even in my hands?