When we are dating someone and possibly love them, we will often look past their flaws and accept even the worst parts of them. But accepting flaws is different than overlooking red flags. If you really want to know how to pick a good guy, you need to not approve of manipulation, make sure he has a good sense of humor, and absolutely never settle for bad sex.
John Gorman has lived an exciting life, but he wishes that he could be more consistent and excel at the basics. Since turning 40, he has felt this more than ever.