When we are dating someone and possibly love them, we will often look past their flaws and accept even the worst parts of them. But accepting flaws is different than overlooking red flags. If you really want to know how to pick a good guy, you need to not approve of manipulation, make sure he has a good sense of humor, and absolutely never settle for bad sex.
Dating rules and norms can lead us astray from finding a soulmate connection and long lasting love. However, when two people share the same values, and choose to cultivate slow love while working on themselves, a bond can be formed that will last a lifetime.