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I feel it shouldnt matter what gender my friend is, and my wife is being ridiculous. I think shes taking her feelings of frustration out on me - unfairly.

I don’t want to panic you or upset you here, but because this is her first real relationship, you should talk to her about contraception.

"I would also ask him if there is one place he always wanted to go to, and make the first trip about him."

I even need to think when it comes to the pronouns. We are so used to saying he and she, but life has moved on, and we need to move with it

I hate when I hear of a part-time dad or mom. Even if people are not together, they still need to be there for the children. This part-time bullshit doesn’t cut it with me.

Even though you don’t want them at your party you will probably have to compromise, say the adults are invited, and you’re delighted to have them, but it’s a kid-free zone.

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"It might seem that ye are at two opposite ends here, but I think we should look at the middle ground here. No matter what religion or no religion at all, ye are good people and believe in right from wrong."

This might happen again with this woman. She will keep acting like this until someone sets her straight.

"Your parents seem to be good people, they are obviously people of strong faith. People might not think much of this anymore, I really like it."