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>> its a match! >> like many of their generation, paulita and lien far looking online for their dates. >> im trying to have the smallest amounts of words exchanged. >> people are having sexual intercourse with their dates. >> hi, how are you? i can be there in 15 minutes. >> the guests are completely astonished. >> we call it having sex, were wasting our time. this is meaningless blah, blah. im not really interested in your job or in your future expectations or in being the mother of your childr...

You have one son. what did you tell him about love, about marriage, about courting and getting a wife? it was her duty to find him a woman, and she did? >> she did. >> dear lena. >> exactly. >> what expectations did you have? >> what this. >> first off you have to take care of the parents of the men, then your husband. >> what about herself, her own happiness? were you ever told you also have a right to be happy, to be loved? >> this is not in our culture till now, no. i cant explain you. when y...

Personal woman question. here you are in one room, in a camp, and you have to have husband-wife relations, youre pregnant. how difficult is it to do that here with everybody in the same room? what? >> its a good question. i dont know if you get answer. >> ask her. >> so in this room, you got pregnant? >> do you mind me asking you these questions? >> in lena and lailas culture, sex and love are extremely private matters and even talking about them openly is taboo.

>> yes. >> good luck, be safe. >> i will. >> as lena headed off on her way to one of her five hookups that night, i couldnt help feeling the generation gulf. >> couldnt have been easier. come here, kiss me. time is running. we have like 90 minutes. so were going to rock it. >> i can see that these young women are fully in control of their sexuality. and they treat sex more like many men would. as someone disinclined to record my own sexual pastimes -- >> oh my god, that was so funny. >> i have t...

Because i have a different experience. and im very happy. because every human has the right to enjoy the real sex. they told me, no, we dont understand what youre talking about, we dont have this kind of experience. >> you mean pleasure? >> yeah, pleasure. i dont want to tell them, oh, you missed something. but -- yeah. >> this was a school thats been turned into a refugee camp in the heart of berlin. and for now its home for lena and her husband hanif, their two children, and her in-laws. ive r...

Of experience. >> you mean pleasure? >> yeah, pleasure. i dont want to tell them, oh, you missed something. but -- yeah. >> this was a school thats been turned into a refugee camp in the heart of berlin. and for now its home for lena and her husband hanif, their two children, and her in-laws. ive reported on people fleeing war and crises throughout my career, and ive always wanted to ask about how they manage to maintain what makes us all human. relationships, love, and intimacy. ♪ all three g...

In the digital age. >> its a match! >> like many of their generation, paulita and lena are looking online for their dates. >> im trying to have the smallest amounts of words exchanged. >> people are having sexual intercourse with their dates. >> hi, where are you? i can be there in 15 minutes. >> the guests are completely astonished. >> we call it having sex, were wasting our time. this is meaningless blah, blah. im not really interested in your job or in your future expectations or in being the...

>> in lena and lailas culture, sex and love are extremely private matters and even talking about them openly is taboo. you have one won sson. what did you tell him about love, about marriage, about courting and getting a wife? [ speaking foreign language ] it was her duty to find him a woman, and she did? >> she did. >> dear lena. >> exactly. >> what expectations did you have? >> what this. >> first off you have to take care of the parents of the men, then your husband. >> what about herself, he...

>> yes. >> good luck, be safe. >> i will. >> as lena headed off on her way to one of her five hookups that night, i couldnt help feeling the generation gulf. >> couldnt have been easier. come here, kiss me. time is running. we have like 90 minutes. so were going to rock it. >> i can see that these young women are fully in control of their sexuality. and they treat sex more like many men would. as someone disinclined to record my own sexual pastimes -- >> oh my god, that was so funny. >> i have t...