anna is a family counselor and says she can t leave because of her job. i m a citizen, i m no criminal. i went to school, i have a master s degree. i m a professional and i still have to feel this way. i think it s unfair. reporter: a critic might say that you chose to marry someone undocumented. how do you tell your heart not to? we re not machines. we re not robots. we re humans. reporter: anna says she s sure other families are leaving because of fear. they were hoping for this exo dus of undocumented people. now it s happening. isn t that aren t you giving them what they want? they are going to regret it though. they will regret it. reporter: how? financially, they will not have people working the farms. they will not have people working, picking up strawberries. what will you tell people about why your husband is not living with you?
the president has had a couple meetings and we look at the planning going forward, 7:00 p.m. what do you know of what happened in the last meeting? well, it s interesting, you mention that the leaders are going to be coming back here. richard, it s hard to tell whether there s really some roll of your sleeves h bare knuckle negotiations going on. both sides are conscious of the fact the public is fed up. neither side wants to take the blame and a lot of this is prepositioning. you heard the president yesterday. he was out of town, but he compared the relationship in congress between republicans and democrats to a marriage. you don t always get the way, says the president. he sort of set himself up as the family counselor. we heard these two leaders come out. harry reid, the senate democrat ink le democratic leader said it s doable. he called it a frank discussion. john boehner said we continue to have productive conversations.