Jane Guyn News Today

Dear Dr. Jane: Valentine’s Day was coming up and I have to admit that I wasn’t looking forward to it. I love my boyfriend. He’s a great guy and we’re best friends.

Dear Dr. Jane, I hate to say this, but I’m bored with sex. Not all sex, just the sex that I’ve been having with my wife.

Dear Dr. Jane,My wife and I have a good enough relationship but we’d like to spice things up a little. She was talking with a friend about intimacy the other day and her friend mentioned sex toys.

By Dr. Jane Guyn | My partner has some ideas about sex that just aren’t a fit for me. He recently shared that his kink is being a sexual dominant. He wants me to be his submissive.

By Dr. Jane Guyn | It’s great that you got therapy as a couple when your kids were young. You learned how to communicate with each other, which is wonderful. Communication is key to having a great sex life. Unfortunately, there are often other barriers to intimacy that are really hard to talk about.

Dear Dr. Jane, I love my partner, but our sex life is dull. We do the same thing every single time. I manage to get myself turned on enough to perform, but if I’m honest, I need to do a lot of fantasizing in order to make that happen.

By Dr. Jane | The feeling of awkwardness can start so soon! It's almost as if there's some kind of magnetic field (that's acting in reverse) when you've stopped being physically intimate for a while.

Dr. Jane: Many of us have experienced significant sexual trauma in the past. These experiences can get triggered during things that happen in our current lives.

Starting in April, the City Paper will offer a monthly column by nationally recognized relationship coach Dr. Jane Guyn.

A chat about intimacy, helping couples get closer and Dr. Jane's column in the Source