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- [richard] what s up there, fella? see, i m richard, your son. let me put this amplifier on you. test, test, test. how are you? i m richard. (stephen mumbles) yeah. - you re so good. thank you. (people chattering) how are you? - okay. - you good? (somber music) all right, here it goes. don t try to eat it now. not bad, huh? (somber music) you like this, don t you? i know you like this. (soft piano music) that s it, kiddo. caring for dad is a challenge of physical and mental health. it was a lonely road until i found others. - do you have nightmares? (soft piano music) - tell us about the injury. - [luke] my mind was a mess. we get lost in there. just suicidal. - with cancer, that s dangerous. - we re everywhere. - i wish i could be there for all of it. - i m not ready. - me and matthew. - join energy. - (laughs) have fun! - fall deeper in love. this is a common experience. (soft piano music) (car engines rumbling) - okay, you re almost there. we have to. no, you have to thro
they don t think that way. it s almost as if going from a to z, i will go a, b, m, c, q, z. (soft music) - it s very tempting to be angry at him. i taught myself to stop and recalibrate. we are angry at the brain injury, we are not angry at luke. now, i would love to be able to tell you that when he s being weird or crazy i think, oh, he must be having a headache, and, oh, life s so hard for you. like, let s be really understanding. that is not (laughs) at all what happens, inevitably, right? i say, you are acting like a psycho, so (laughs) . - [luke] (indistinct) that s good, amy. - no, it s not good at all. living with someone with a brain injury is very stressful. (soft music) - how do i deal with that? - how do you deal with that? - well, i mean, i see a therapist, so (laughs) .
not bad, huh? (somber music) you like this, don t you? i know you like this. (soft piano music) that s it, kiddo. caring for dad is a challenge of physical and mental health. it was a lonely road until i found others. - do you have nightmares? (soft piano music) - tell us about the injury. - [luke] my mind was a mess. we get lost in there. just suicidal. - with cancer, that s dangerous. - we re everywhere. - i wish i could be there for all of it. - i m not ready. - me and matthew. - join energy. - (laughs) have fun! - fall deeper in love. this is a common experience. (soft piano music)
i ll use the large black spoon for the cream of wheat cause it can hold more. but it wasn t working. my father s lowest weight was in the 90s. the very idea of him having a stomach tube and getting fed with a formula, that was after great debate in my family about what was best for him. - i love you. - you re so wonderful. - one time, in the hospital, the doctor sat down my mom and me and he said, we cannot feed your dad. your dad keeps regurgitating. you need to think about letting him go, like now. - hang in there, baba. i mean, we know this one patient so well. sometimes, we had to fight what the advice was. we ended up putting in the tube. going for a ride. (rose laughs)