15 Valentine's Day gift ideas that won't scare off your crush Don't get a new S.O. a pair of kinky handcuffs. Anastacia Uriegas FacebookTwitterEmail .Amazon/Hearst Newspapers Any Internet search for Valentine’s Day gifts will result in pages of tacky gifts no one in their right mind would find romantic or appropriate, especially when you’re shopping for someone you just started dating or would like to date. This is your opportunity to show your crush you care and that you have good taste. Go big with a status-y candle or thoughtful with a taste of home, just leave the kinky handcuffs for later.