Pastor Choco Deâ Jesus is the former senior pastor of New Life Covenant Church in Chicago, one of the largest churches in the nation. | Courtesy of Choco De' Jesus All of us have blind spots. Theyâre not sins; theyâre part of being a flawed, limited human being. But they become sins when God uses someone to point them out to us and we refuse to admit them. Itâs a sin when weâre comfortable with our preexisting point of view and we donât want any new information that challenges it. I pray that God will use what Iâm about to share regarding common blind spots in relationships to open your eyes to any that apply to you.