Ask Amy: Was I a Bridezilla? Updated 5:00 AM; Dear Amy: In March of 2020, right before the pandemic hit, I got married. I was considered a Bridezilla (I disagree); I was just very set on planning my own wedding with my husband, and we didn’t want or take others’ suggestions. I have seen my own family and friends settle for what those around them wanted instead of what they wanted. As I was planning my wedding, my two best friends since junior high school made it very clear what I should or shouldn’t do. I was very clear with them that my husband and I were planning our wedding together, without any other input, although as we were planning, I would offer certain information about what we were planning.