out. you can't put all this on you. you can't go to work and go to school and come home and cook and clean while he sits there like the prince of sheeba. >> i have some reservations because of the lack of responsibility. >> reporter: how's he going to learn it? >> burning down a house is not an option. >> reporter: you're not going to let him in there with a match. you have an electric stove. >> if i'm not home the tator tots are burned and so is my house. >> reporter: not going to happen. >> okay. >> reporter: his education has to be his responsibility. you have to take a different role in this. if you watch the littlest ones, the coaches are out on the field, right? as they get older, where do the coaches go? >> on the sidelines. >> reporter: that's right. got to put you on the sideline. >> i'm not trying to say i want to put my mom on the sideline like one of my coaches. i don't -- >> maybe you're ready for me to take a step back? >> yes. >> all right. i can handle that. >> i'm not trying to say you have to because it's --