factor. even though there is no specific script tour that addresses wrestling with girls, is there a biblical principle of treating women with respect and dignity and not looking at them as object tos defeated on the wrestling mat or to be, you know, in some cases, groped or slammed or, you know? >> joel, to wrap up, to you again. have you ever wrestled a girl in your career? >> well, actually back in third grade, i wrestled a girl, but i didn't feel -- feel right about it and after that, i made a decision just to never wrestle a girl again. >> were you ever able to talk to cassy after you defaulted and stepped away from that match? did you talk to her? >> no, i didn't. i did talk to her dad, though. he came up and he supported what i did.