i would be writing no matter what. but i suppose i always had this other side, i used to work at families international, had this side of me, wants to make a difference. but i want to do it in a meaningful way, and one of the things that lumos caught me is to be careful how you give. even if you're giving with the best of intentions, you may inadvertently be doing harm. very, well meaning donors inadvertently propping up a system that we know we have maybe 100 years of hard research that shows that even a well run institution, even an institution set up the best possible will irrevokably harm the child. >> what is it that you can do. >> absolutely. this is the key question. possibly the most staggering figure in all of this is that we know at least 80% of these