>> this is japanese tradition. we don't talk about much, i think. >> i understand that that is traditional in japan. the mother often sleeps with the children and the husband sleeps alone. but sex is not just sex. it's about intimacy. it's about hugging. physical love as well as intellectual love. >> she doesn't even hug. >> you don't even hug. do you feel lonely? you do. you feel lonely. do you ever tell him that you're not happy? >> never talked about it. >> he probably won't say anything. he will probably think he didn't hear anything. >> what's his name? >> takeo. >> so tonight you say takeo it's time for us to have some