it would have created problems. >> diana sees it differently. >> she really delivered him an ultimatum. and when she did that, he stormed out. >> i remember the princess coming back and telling me that it was over. he was saying, but if i marry you, i'll become a nobody. i'll become your shadow. and i've worked all my life to be a heart surgeon. it's what matters most to me. that has to be part of our equation. you can't just dismiss that. but diana was diana, and she wanted it her way. >> was she devastated by the breakup? >> i think she was. she was. she really liked the man. and i think that after charles, that was the candidate. >> but it isn't the first time