be judged by god i will ask to see your brother. and i will hug him and i will ask for forgiveness. and rhona says, we already forgive you. >> wow! >> forgiveness is not forgetting. forgiveness is freedom from hate. >> what is it about the sikh faith -- that seems to be like woven into the fabric of the faith. there is certainly a bigger, clearer message about inclusion and equality that i don't necessarily hear from the christianity i grew up in. >> the sikh faith is a faith about love. they see no stranger, no enemy. the stereotypes are embedded in our nation's imagination. we have been wired to see black criminal, brown illegal, transimmoral, women property, turban-wearing muslims, terrorists. it's just the air that we are breathing. and we can't help -- they're in the air. we can't help but absorb them even if we don't endorse. >> i recognize it in myself when i see specifically a man in a turban that i think foreign. >> yes. >> hearing the question how long have you lived in america? nope, nope, nope don't say that. you know, i can feel myself like have to click that button off in my head. >> i can train my eyes to look upon the faces of all strangers i see on the street, on the subway on the screen and say in my mind sister, brother, and if we can see strangers as sisters and brothers, then we are more likely to step into the fire when they need us. so brother, you are in the battle with me. >> i should -- i brought