matter what felt compelled to apologize. the progressive base does not want her to apologize, but i think the network does. >> stacey, i was speaking to someone today, a woman, and we were talking about that. and she made a point to me i hadn't really thought about. that word, the cu next tuesday word, is personal to her. and i said you know what, i understand it was vulgar and terrible before i had that conversation with her, but also, as a person of color, what roseanne did was personal to me. >> and to me. i condemned it immediately. >> okay. that's not where i'm going with this. perhaps it's a way that people can sort of understand each other. maybe it doesn't affect you so you don't think it's awful and terrible. but when it does affect you, then maybe you should be more empathetic about listening to what other people say about it. because the president certainly seems to think that only what samantha bee said matters, not