pull apart more and more and i was even completely apart but it's the process you know you have to look at this from outside you know and see now i am not angry i'm not disappointed and not you know i just see this that was you know that would happen and it was worth every minute. that you made you not just decided to separate like other couples to your met a performance out of this you know that of even the thought you said to me ok you have to walk to an after hours of kilometer each to say goodbye can you just make phone call i cut the humans. we didn't know we did that because we never give up anything and you know it took us eight years the permission to the chinese give to us finally we got permission we was under for a ship and then instead of getting together in mariel the chinese will always say goodbye.