another will live longer. >> god intended marriage where truth is taught love is learned. when a mom and dad are committed in a marriage relationship that goes the distance over a lifeti lifetime, i think that family unit becomes the cornerstone of a civi civilization. i think that's the breakdown in our country. i think the country is in serious trouble because of what's happening at homes. you have started "the art of marriage." you can find out how to do that at their homes or churches. if you would capsulize for me what is the key message of "the hea art of marriage"? what is it you want couples to say here's what i learned that