night together or were you going to go out and go to a party? what happened? why did you separate? >> well, we weren't really doing anything but marley had -- there was a girl named katie who he'd recently reconnected with and they knew each other freshman here and she invited them to a party that we didn't know the people there and we didn't know the katie girl so we let marley go off on his own. he was going to a party and we hung out at john's and didn't really do anything. >> jeanine: you hear that he is shot. what was your reaction? >> shock. i didn't really believe it until actually i called matt and it was kind of a -- i don't know. kind of surreal. still hasn't fully -- i don't think it's actually fully hit us yet. >> jeanine: what did the police tell you happened? >> well, actually, i talked to the detectives that morning because i woke up to marley's mom calling me and telling me that he had been shot and then i immediately talked to the detective who was assigned to the case and he basically just