Most Divorces Are Ugly Let's just be honest about that point above. I could probably say 'all divorces' and it would still be accurate. I'm pretty sure somewhere in every marriage that ends in divorce, there was some kind of ugliness. No disrespect to divorce lawyers, but I wonder how many times a wife or husband only decided to really 'stick it' to their ex because of some tactic present by the attorney. Again, no disrespect, but skilled lawyers always know what is possible, when you likely do not. The kind of ugliness present in these new details of Ben Zobrist's divorce from his wife, Julianna, is a new level of ugly.