The Good Men Project Become a Premium Member We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century. Your support of our work is inspiring and invaluable. I Broke It off With Someone I Love Being with him was so easy. Which is why our breakup is so hard. Being with him was so easy. Which is why our breakup is so hard. A Covid Courtship We met online and had several social distancing phone dates before we met. Our calls could last for an hour or more, the time going by without either of us knowing it. No topic was off limits. Politics, parenting, philosophy, spirituality… we laughed a lot and the attraction grew between us like middle-aged teenagers (we’re both in our early 50s).