Ahh. And i know you saw me when i was doing this, and you kind of so, you start this way, but turn. Okay. So, when you turn, you can put the heat here for a little bit and then do a cool shot, let it cool for a minute. When youre coming out of it, spin. Ahh. So the release is just as important. Yes. So, when you do that, it automatically puts a form. So when you keep going to the next, its holding it. So, lets say you just want a nice little sleek, sophisticated look. You can keep it like this. Or we can do a little bit of a tease. So, quick tease trick. A lot people think you have to do the oldschool, 1950s to 70s little section by section roller set. No. What i always tell people is to do, like, a triangle in the back. So, line here, and then start at your peak. Okay. So, when you do that, again, it doesnt have to be that perfect parting cause you want it to be natural. So, just nicely comb. Overelevate just a little bit. And you could take any comb. You can use a brush. It doesnt matter. Whats more comfortable for you. About midway. Mmhmm. Go down. Again. Just nice and subtle. Heres the trick to a tease that a lot of people dont do. They think they tease it and then the pull it back, right . Take your hair and split it. Oh. What does that do . This is helping divide so youre not having such a harsh, matted look right in here. I see. So, you see how it kind of branches out a little bit . So when you that and you comb. So the volume moves around your hair . Exactly. It gives it movement. So, another little trick to tell you you ever get to where you see a picture, or you took a selfie and youre like, oh, my gosh, i can see my scalp . Uhhuh. So, you can take a rattail comb, a pen, a makeup any kind of tip and zigzag into your part. Ohhhh. So, what thats gonna do automatically its not dramatic. Its not, you know. But do you see how it gives a lift, too . Uhhuh. I love this oh, my gosh. Perfect. Love thank you yay thank you, thank you. No problem. Yes [ laughs ] coming up, pack your bags were going to Southern California for some fun. Theres just so much to do. Youre not gonna get bored. And if anything, youre gonna need to stay an extra night. Need to get away . Were taking you to costa mesa, the Perfect Place for a Weekend Getaway any time of the year. Costa mesa is located in orange county, and its known for worldfamous attractions, celebrated restaurants, specialty shops, and top entertainment. Its time to be surprised and inspired. All right. What makes costa mesa such a Perfect Place for a Weekend Getaway . Paulette, what would you sum it up as . We have the best of the arts here at Segerstrom Center for the arts. We have worldclass shopping here, and we have a fabulous dining experience. And, you know, you dont need a car to get around here, and thats what makes it so convenient. When you fly into john wayne airport, were just about a 10minute drive, regardless of where you stay in the city, and we have transportation from the 11 partnering hotels that we have here. You can hop on a bus right outside of our partnering hotels and get to the disneyland resort. Were close to beaches. Were just about a 10minute drive away from the pacific ocean. So youve got everything right here in costa mesa. Okay, now, the shopping. Worldclass shopping. Absolutely. If you want to shop outside, we have got quaint places like the lab and the camp, weve got the oc mix. We have, of course, south coast plaza, the International Shopping destination. One of my favorite things to do on a Weekend Getaway of course is shopping. And costa mesa has plenty of it. Im talking to linda of the lab. Hi, linda. Hi. How are you . Good, thank you. Okay. This is not your traditional shopping mecca. You call this the antimall. The antimall. Yes. Explain that, linda. My husband and i, shaheen, started the lab antimall almost 25 years ago. And our mantra is really to support Little American businesses, which lab is the acronym for. So you will find very unique, oneofakind tenants here, and were really out to support them as kind of a foundation of america, really. Every couple years, we have a changeover. We want to keep it fresh and exciting. As we redo the art and the landscaping, we also redo our tenants to make sure were answering immediate trends and needs. All right. Linda, thank you so much. Youre welcome. Come back and visit. Theres no doubt about it the culinary scene in costa mesa is really diverse. So, right now, i am at vaca restaurant talking to chef amar. Hello, chef. How are you . Okay, i understand we are gonna be doing something that just speaks to my soul. [ laughs ] it speaks to my soul, too. So, what are we gonna do here . So, what were gonna do, were gonna assemble a charcuterie plate. So, vaca here in costa mesa is a spanish tapas steakhouse restaurant. So, were gonna slice some of this beautiful jamon iberico. Slice it paperthin. And what kind of flavors here are we talking about . We talk about think about, like, eating hazelnut, and like a nice and rich and fatty piece of pork. I mean, the flavor on this is unbelievable. So, were gonna get some spanish cheeses. We have three different kinds of manchegos. We have 18 months, 12 months, and 6 months. Then were gonna slice some spanish chorizo, also, to put on the plate. And what is it that you love most about costa mesa. I feel like the diversity here is so much better than anywhere else in orange county. You know, you get any kind of food. Theres so much stuff going on and happening in so many restaurants, and its so easy to get to. Thats what i like about it most. This looks delightful. I dont even im going to go for this aged. Yeah, try the aged manchego. Manchego. Oh. Nutty, rich. That is so good i wish you all could taste it through the camera. [ both laugh ] mmm thank you, chef. Yeah, youre very welcome. Costa mesa is known as the city of the arts. So, talking to us right now is terry. And, tell us, this beautiful space, where are we . Well, right now, youre in the renee and Henry Segerstrom concert hall. 1,900 seats. Beautiful acoustics. Its one of the best places in the United States to hear a concert or see a wonderful performance. And, really, were one of the most prominent and most favored touring destination for great broadway shows and many other kinds of performances. Were very lucky to have these facilities. So, tell us what kinds of performances people can see. Well, we have jazz, cabaret, chamber music. But we also have one of the best classical dance series in the entire nation. Any given weekend, theres multiple shows going on here. We have five different performing spaces, and sometimes we have two or three or four shows running on the same night. So lots of options, lots of choices. And im sure youve had friends or family that have come out to visit you. What did they say when they left . You know, theyre absolutely amazed. They have a great time. Theres so many things to do. Its so easy to do these things. Its easy parking. Its easy to find great restaurants, and its very easy to find great performing arts. Theyre amazed at what costa mesa has to offer. Theres so much to explore in the bay area, so well be back with more stories to share. In the meantime, we want to hear from you. So send us your favorite stories, pictures, videos, and places in the bay area. Visit us online, join us on facebook, and follow us on twitter. All of this fun driven by your Northern California honda dealers. What if there was only one emoji . Now what if there was only one mattress . One is not a choice. Choose your mattress with tulo. Everything you want in a bed, in a box. What if there was only one haircut . Now what if there was only one mattress . One is not a choice. Choose your mattress with tulo. Everything you want in a bed, in a box. Every single time i looked at him, i could not believe its my child. I couldnt believe it. Reporter nathaniel has a genetic condition called Treacher Collins syndrome, unlike a typical infants face he was born without cheekbones, eye sockets or ears but most harrowing of all are his breathing complications. His nasal passageway is nearly solid bone and his airway is so narrow its like trying to breath through a soda straw. But as different as nathaniel looks on the outside, that is where the differences end. Did you tell them, its his brain is unaffected thats really important. Its really important. Because when you look at children with craniofacial conditions, you think cognitively, they are not going to be developmentally normal other than his appearance and how his life functions, breathing, eating, et cetera, he is no different than any other boy. Reporter but because of those malformations in his face in his first year of life he has more than ten surgeries. Weve never done cosmetic surgery on nathaniel. Everything weve done his whole life has had some benefit to life function. Reporter when nathaniel is one month old an emergency tracheotomy is performed, a breathing tube inserted in his throat. A procedure as life altering as it is life saving. Once you become dependent on a trach your life will s s your your life changes. And then, hes gonna be prone to infection, which ended up proving to be true. Where a normal parent, you know, bath time is this cute, wonderful experience. For us, youre worrying about, what if water gets in there. Reporter but they remain committed to that pledge they made to nathaniel on the first night of his life, to raise him as a, quote, normal boy and take him out into the world. I live in new york city. Were walking with the stroller. And everybody was, oh, you have a baby. And they go, let me see the baby. And theyre like, god bless you. That was the worst. That was the worst. Reporter by the time nathaniel turns two, russel and magda are settling into this version of parenthood, yet they still long for the chance to experience it without all the heartache. I wanted to have a normal child. I wanted to see how be able to nurse easy it is. A baby definitely for sure. But we were scared to just do it on our own reporter because of the hereditary nature of Treacher Collins, there is a 50 50 chance their second child will have it as well. Reporter we did every test known to man. And they basically came back and said, were 99 sure your second child will not be affected by Treacher Collins. But there is no way to know for sure until delivery day finally arrives. This delivery was so quick. I walk into the hospital. 20 minutes later jacob was born. Jacob literally came out looking like a porcelain doll. He was just gorgeous, beautiful. Reporter the simple joys of motherhood, so easily taken for granted were for magda, extraordinary. It was just so easy. This is so easy. You just have the baby and you just hold it and try to breast feed it. Reporter throughout the years nathaniel and jacob shared all the moments and memories that brothers do, but for nathaniel, things were always different. How old was nathaniel when he first noticed, looking in a mirror, i dont look like everybody else . Definitely around age four or five, he could clearly vocalize, i dont like the staring. I dont like the name calling. At that age were goin to birthday parties and other kids see him and scream and leave. He knows it was about him. Reporter i traveled to reno, nevada, where the family now lives, after russ got a new job. It is finally time to meet nathaniel. Hello. Nice to see you again. And this is nathaniel. Nathaniel is now 11 yearsold and has had 53 surgeries. This is sam. Nice to meet you. Reporter i bring my son sam along, who, like so many kids, has never met anyone like nathaniel. Weve come to do some of nathaniels favorite things video games. Going to the trampoline park. Dodge ball how do you explain how you look different . I just explain that i have treachercollins, i know everyone looks different, except i look a lot more different than everyone else. Does that bother you . No. I kinda like it. It just seems fun cause i stand out. Im curious when you realized, hey, my face is different from other peoples faces. When the first kid called, monster. A kid called you a monster . Yeah that must have hurt your feelings . Yeah, and then i realized that they dont do it to anybody else, so i was different. How did that make you feel . I was insulted. Yeah, ill bet. Were you mad . Yeah, i guess a little. Sometimes why do you think kids do that . Why do you think they say mean things to kids who look different . Because theyre they dont really think about what theyre saying, and their parents dont really do anything about it. Reporter and over the years nathaniels differences have affected his little brother jacob too. He can sometimes find himself acting more like a big brother. Your parents were telling me how when you were so little and kids would be mean to nathaniel and youd get up there with your little fist and go, hey, leave my brother alone. I still do that. You you still do that but i get more into it. Please dont stare. Do you think of yourself as your brothers protector . I think he can protect himself pretty good, but sometimes there are just Big High School kids that i have to talk to by myself how old are you, jacob . Almost 9. Youre almost 9 . Here comes super hero nathaniel sometimes i forget i have treachercollins. You do . Yeah, sometimes if im having a good time, i forget what i look like. So when we were zip lining did you forget you had treachercollins . Yeah, i was just having a lot of fun. Reporter coming up for nathaniel, middle school. How do you fit in when you are born to stand out . My name is Nathaniel Newman and i am different. Reporter stay with us. He thinks it smells fine, but his mom smells this. Luckily for all your hardtowash fabrics. Theres febreze fabric refresher. Febreze doesnt just mask, it eliminates odors youve. Gone noseblind to. And try Febreze Unstopables for fabric. With up to twice the fresh scent power, youll want to try it. Again and again and maybe just one more time. Indulge in irresistible freshness. Febreze unstopables. Breathe happy. Nits softer than ever. New charmin ultra soft is softer than ever so its harder to resist. Okay, this is getting a little weird enjoy the go with charmin. Nausea, heartburn, when indigestion, upset stomach, diarrhea nausea, heartburn, indigestion, upset stomach, diarrhea heres pepto bismol ah. Nausea, heartburn, indigestion, upset stomach, diarrhea. What if there was only one paper . Now what if there was only one mattress . One is not a choice. Choose your mattress with tulo. Everything you want in a bed, in a box. What if there was only one pet . Now what if there was only one mattress . One is not a choice. Choose your mattress with tulo. Everything you want in a bed, in a box. Reporter the first day of middle school, whoever wants to relive that, but imagine what its like for Nathaniel Newman. In the fall of 2015 nathaniel walked into bd Billinghurst Middle School in reno, nevada for his first day of sixth grade. Which for nathaniel meant another brutal round of introductions. New school, new classmates. To ease the transition, the newmans had a plan. Russell came up with the great idea. They sat down together and we write a letter. My name is Nathaniel Newman and i am 12 years old. I am different. I dont want you to be surprised when we meet. I i have a trach to breathe and a special hearing aid to hear. I have three dogs. I like pokemon a lot, as well as star wars. I really just want you to treat me like everyone else. And we include a picture to try and avoid some of the first day shock and awe if you will. Reporter after a couple of months we came to visit nathaniel at school. Ms. Culbertson and ms. Urban are his sixth grade teachers. How important were those letters that nathaniels family sent out . The students knowing what to expect i think is very helpful, rather than just walking into school and then having that reaction, which most parents have taught their kids not to have that kinda reaction. But its hard. Theyre kids. Were any of guys at all nervous to meet nathaniel the first time . Yeah. Yeah, its okay to admit that. Tell me why you were nervous. I was a little nervous because i didnt wanna say anything to hurt his feelings. I didnt know what what the experience would be like. He may look different on the outside. But on the inside, hes perfectly normal just like everyone else. Reporter but the single most powerful change in how children treat nathaniel isnt because of that letter, but because of a little blue book called wonder. We incorporate the book wonder into the welcome letters. Like, hey, you might have read wonder now. You might have read the book wonder. If you have then you already know a little bit about me. Reporter wonder tells the story of 10 yearold Auggie Pullman born with a facial difference a lot like Treacher Collins. Rj palacio wrote the book after a chance encounter with a little girl who looked a lot like nathaniel. I was in front of an Ice Cream Store here in my neighborhood, with my two sons. And i realized that there was a little girl sitting directly next to me. She had a very severe cranial facial difference. And i kind of panicked, cause my little boy started to cry hysterically and in my haste to protect her from his reaction, i kinda like turned the stroller around, i started pushing it away really fast. It was terrible. And i i was so mad at myself for the way that i handled it. For the rest of the day, i just kept thinking about all the things i wished id said and done. Reporter palacio started writing with the hope that this story could inspire parents and children alike. I just thought, okay, im going to write a book and its going to be about what it must be like to face a world every day that doesnt know how to face you back. Reporter when the book came out in 2012, nurse pat chibaro was one of the first to read it. She immediately reached out to the newmans. I literally read it in three hours, cried the whole time. And i remember calling back pat and going, pat, did she spy on us . Like, this is freaky. And then we got to meet raquel face to face for lunch one day. And when she saw nathaniel, you could just see this look in her face. And i remember thinking, oh, my goodness, this is Auggie Pullman come to life. Reporter the similarities between the book and nathaniels life are almost unbelievable. Wonder begins with auggie starting at a new school just like