Lessons from 2020: Special memo to all young men out there Photo: CAS Health Ms Mwangangi,a model wife material that all men wish for… Memo No. 27 from The National Welfare Desk of Men Lessons from 2020: Last Memo of the Year It is dedicated to all good men. As the bad year draws to an end, I have compiled the best lessons we have learned this year. Without further ado, here we go. 1. Don’t ever allow anyone, male or female to waste your time. You can never replace lost time. So, cut off anyone who needs you for their convenience and expediency. However desperate you are, retain some dignity for self.