The Good Men Project Become a Premium Member We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century. Your support of our work is inspiring and invaluable. So You Call Yourself an Ally: 10 Things All ‘Allies’ Need to Know There are lots of ways to be a great “ally” – and innumerable ways to be a terrible one. By Jamie Utt As happens every time that I read something from Black Girl Dangerous, I recently found myself snapping, nodding, and yelling out “ YES!” while reading a piece from Mia McKenzie. which is a good thing.