they're being exploitive in some instances and not in others but somebody in the middle of a divorce they want to be seen with the kid to make someone think they're good parents that week or not, that's up to them. that is a parental right. it is my right as a parent to determinate what point i want to have my child in the public eye and not. and it is no one else's right to sweep in and say, today because you let the cat out of the bottle or whatever, cat out of the -- mixed metaphor, bag, whatever. thank you, mark. that now he or she is fair game and that i can just take pictures or i can run up to their preschool. that is not okay. this is not okay, bonnie. >> but how is anybody supposed to know which day it is? the day you want to promote your child and yourself. >> i think it should be privacy of the child. that should be the default position of every publication interested in these particular pictures. if the parent makes that child available you use the pictures. that should be the default position, no other. >> i have to say i don't know a single person whose kid is named