their future or social security and who just can't give. and i'm saying these people who have the scrooge defect cannot be good lovers, because a good lover has to be generous. see, look at her face. >> yes! >> a good lover has to be generous. he or she has to rejoice in the pleasure of the other person. so i am doing a book and the other day i said whoever gives me money is going to have good sex for the rest of their lives. >> i'll sign up. >> i love what you say, a good lover rejoices in the pleasure of others. >> right. that's a book coming out. >> i look forward to that. >> it comes out very soon. >> i like that. >> thank you. listen, we love having you on the show. so thank you so much for being with us. i wish you the best. >> thank you. >> you're the only person at this table whoever holds my hand. >> i don't believe that. they love you.