have money, who can't give to charity, who are worried about their future or social security and who just can't give. and i'm saying these people who have the scrooge defect cannot be good lovers, because a good lover has to be generous. see, look at her face. >> yes! >> a good lover has to be generous. he or she has to rejoice in the pleasure of the other person. so i am doing a book and the other day i said whoever gives me money is going to have good sex for the rest of their lives. >> i'll sign up. >> i love what you say, a good lover rejoices in the pleasure of others. >> right. that's a book coming out. >> i look forward to that. >> it comes out very soon. >> i like that. >> thank you. listen, we love having you on the show. so thank you so much for being with us. i wish you the best. >> thank you.