moment, which seems clear -- this is a lovely couple i keep in touch with on facebook. angie is tyrannized about being a good mother. and mothers spend twice as much time with their kids and fathers. they do twice as much housework. they are alive to all the emotional undercurrents in the house. they feel deadlines acutely. they're on the clock the minute they come home. and fathers are more apt to be monotasking as opposed to multitasking. what's amazing is that watching clint, he was so forgiving of himself. he said, ah, i'm the standard when i came home. very up uncomplicated. angie felt like she was the