to bide your time until revenge can at last be exacted. >> revenge is a very, very sweet tasting thing for koreans because there's been so much wrong that's happened to us. >> what about little timmy mcmasters who made fun of you in second grade for bringing kimchi to school? he laughed at you and said it smelled like garbage. is there vengeance coming their way? >> i want those people to think about that time that they made fun of me. i want them to actually love korean food now. >> that doesn't sound anywhere close to endless suffering. >> well, that's my personal story. >> i would think electric nipple clamps. then i drive over them. not killing them. they slowly bled to dead from artery wounds. >> the reason that koreans are able to just not wallow in that is because of this other emotion called chung.