all the emotions they just repeat. and then you just instantly feel this incredible ache. it's a physical pain through your whole body just imagining what all those families are feeling, as well. you know i can imagine, unfortunately i know exactly what they're going through, and it's horrible. and now the same complete lack of news. it's unbelievable. >> the day it happened i totally just couldn't function any longer. i think i sort of hoped that i would wake up and they would have news and have some peace. because this is -- it's horrible. it's a horrible nightmare. >> we want some closure. you know we talk to each other on a regular basis. we're constantly asking for news. we just don't know anything at all. it's continuing to be a giant mystery. we really need to have some closure in our lives. >> danica?