actress was taking a sabbatical from hollywood to attend yale university. so hinckley told his parents that he was going back to college. but at yale, not texas tech. >> so he makes up an elaborate ruse to his parents how he's going to go to yale for a writing class that doesn't exist, and all the time spends stalking foster. finds out where she live, slipping notes under her door, on the phone with her. and he would take these calls. >> who is this? oh, no. who is this? who is this? >> this is john. >> who? oh, no. not you again. look, i really can't talk to you. okay? look, do me a really big favor. do you understand why i can't, you know, carry on these conversations with you, someone i don't know. you understand it's dangerous and it's not fair. all right? >> i understand that, it's just -- >> so you just don't ever want