shot? >> my mom and my dad. >> my mom and my dad. >> okay. hold on a second. >> all morning detectives and technicians from the crime lab continued to look for clues behind a huge oak doors and the ornate windows. >> this was all about loss. they had lost their parents and it was a huge issue of loss and immediate grief. >> it is really hard to describe the feelings. just the shock. not believing that this was happening. and that my parents were dead. >> there were three memorial services for jose and kitty menendez. there was a third memorial service held in late september '89, about a month after the