who puts the best spread out at the table. you can't just reject it. it's about making a bigger tapestry here, isn't it? >> in some ways it is. you really truly can't take christ out of christmas. it's in the name. it's in the meaning of the holiday. it's in the expressions and for those people who choose to go to the commercialization, who only want to look at the certain aspects of it, they miss out. they don't get the message. as father beck said earlier, it really is about god choosing to be born in a stable which was actually a carved out like a rock, a cave, you know? and to be laid in a manger, a feeding trough for the domesticated farm animals because there was no room for him in the inn. there was no room for jesus in the inn, in the commercialization we edge jesus