sons at school and i was driving my pick-up truck and i remember well when they got in the car they sort of slumped down in the seat and said dad, how many pick-up truck douse see in the lot? don't ever pick us up in the pick-up truck. pick us up in a car like everybody else has. their beef was that i had embarrassed them. remember the controversy over when governor christie used a helicopter to go to his son's baseball game and a huge kerfuffle about how much money could this have cost. i wrote a column and i said i'm sure the biggest problem the governor has isn't the money, the criticism, it's probably his son because if his son is like my sons, he probably got a workout at the dinner table over the embarrassment factor. that was the gist of the column. and to me it's pretty innocuous but i have to say when i went back with my producer and reconstructed our dealings it became clear that never again did he come back to the radio show and the tone and tenure of the e-mails back and forth