>> i have to say i watched that story that you're talking about. my first phone call when i was diagnosed to my aunt who has been nothing but an amazing supporter in all of this. the second one was to ronnie selig who you know is your reducer in the medical unit. she was my second phone call, a strong woman who knew exactly who i needed to call in order to get through this. my biggest worry was, you know, how do i tell my kids and how do i walk them through that process? my son handled this incredibly well. between i asked him, i said you know, when you think of breast cancer, when somebody says that to you, what -- that's my little girl there on the left-hand side. that's sophia. what do you think about? and he said, i think about a fight. and i thought, thank goodness. because that will make this conversation a lot easier. for my daughter she's only 9 years old and it was actually a much simpler conversation than i originally thought it was going to be. i asked her what do you think about when you hear breast cancer? she said i think about people's