scrolling through the news feed. a message from kevin stoeser popped up. i didn't think anything of it, because of the last name. my family is really good friends with them and they're really well known in our hometown, and i remember reading the message. it said hi, tory, my name is kevin, i went to high school with your mom. i said kevin stoeser? he sent you a friend request, too? she said yeah. i said well, i guess, you know, if you want to accept it, you can. it's somebody my age as one of your friends. i never thought any more of it. >> i said hi, kind of just small