become drug addicts, alcoholics, they can't have a meaningful relationship. but every now and then with that little bit of freedom away from the controlling, away from the manipulation, one of them breaks through and says i have got to tell somebody until this man pays for it. >> it was the beginning of a new year, so i decided to tell my aunt and uncle what had happened out in minnesota. that victor had sex with me from the time i was 13 until i was 22. so for nine years. they were really shocked. they asked me if i knew what