so your father was a nice person originally. that is -- this is why it was very difficult for me to understand. gilbert and i would come on the boardwalk and we would just walk and have fun and we would play in the ocean together. he was just a very kind, nice boy. the last time i spoke to gilbert was when he came back from korea with shell shock, as they called it then, and i knew that -- that he was a different person. i'd never realized what he had gone through from the war. and he was -- he came back, he was a different person. he was not the bill gerrit i know. >> all right. so tell me, what do you see in that picture? >> well, i see your mother. i see she's pregnant. she looks happy. i have no idea who the girl