unexpected death of her father, king george vi. >> she had to juggle the really onerous duties of being queen, being monarch, with being a young mother. >> she went off on long tours for months at a time around the commonwealth and charles was left. >> she came back and instead of hugging him, she was cool and aloof. this gives you an indication of the formal institutionalized nature of their relationship. >> his father, prince philip, was an alpha male, a leader. charles was unconfident, diff diffident, not at all the sort of son that prince philip wanted to have. >> it was clear to the prince that his father was disappointed in him. and i think that was very painful. >> his father's method of dealing with that was to try and toughen him up.