assistant professor of new york's college of medicine, join us now. it seems for us. we are not in the middle of that, only watching on the sidelines. that's a terrible thing to think you would cheer to think of the possibility that your loved one has been hijacked. there is a chance of survival. >> that's why i call this the horror and the hope, because you want to hold on to whatever hope there is. it is great that the grief counselors are there. y you grieve after you are separated from someone and they die. they can't begin to grieve classically as one would. they don't know what has happened to the bodies, whether the family members are still alive or whether they are perished. they are stuck in this