with the pua community? >> actually, i was married and had a divorce and it really did hit me pretty hard. it was really scary for me. i didn't really know how to approach women. walking i see a woman like i don't want to look. >> how would you say these workshops helped you. >> to feel better, be better. >> a lot of people's perception of puas is guys who are trying to hook up with endless numbers of women. is that you? >> well, right now, it kind -- it is a little bit because i do want to get that out of my some but then, you know, eventually my goals are to find a true girlfriend. >> i also swing by to see how my friend mitch is holding up. >> mitchell, why did you come to this retreat? the brochure said things like prepare for an avalanche of [ bleep ] and what have you. was that appealing to you? >> well, yeah, i mean, i'm not allergic to sex and i'm not allergic to naked women, believe me. >> do you feel like you're learning a lot here? >> i thought yesterday was great, especially when we did