>> there's too many rules in life. you can still have sexual freedom and fun. most importantly, we're doing it together. >> for couples like dee and vee, this is considered part of their marriage, an expression of trust. and with 693 rooms, it's a scene that repeats itself throughout the hotel. from what i've seen so far the swinger scene seems like a mature crowd, couples that have been together for a long time. but a new generation is dipping their toes into the lifestyle. in small ways, making it their own. >> i don't really know which one. i picked out this. >> i like that.