yale for a writing class that doesn't exist. the whole time he spent stalking foster. he finds out where she lives, slipping notes under her door, he's on the phone with her. he taped these calls. >> who is this? oh, no, who is this? >> this is jody? >> who is this? >> this is john. >> john who? oh, no, not you again. look, i really can't talk to you, okay? do me a really big favor. you understand why i can't, you know, carry on these conversations with you? you understand it's dangerous and it's not done and it's not fair and it's rude. all right? well, i understand that but it's the same thing. okay? >> so you just don't ever want -- >> no, been really nice talking to you though. >> he started to yell at the recorder, hang up, hang up! because this is what we tell our wife or our daughter. you hang up right away.